Meaningful Quote – Beyond Perls

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Beyond Perls

 

If I just do my thing and you do yours,
We stand in danger of losing each other
And ourselves.

 

I am not in this world to live up to your expectations;
But I am in this world to confirm you
As a unique human being,
And to be confirmed by you.

 

We are fully ourselves only in relation to each other;
The I detached from a Thou
Disintegrates.

 

I do not find you by chance;
I find you by an active life 
Of reaching out.

 

Rather than passively letting things happen to me,
I can act intentionally to make them happen.

 

I must begin with myself, true;
But I must not end with myself:
The truth begins with two.

(Walter Tubbs, 1972)

And so, the Hopeful Romantic follows this premise – not passively letting life (and opportunities for love) slip bye, but instead intentionally creating new opportunities to live life to the fullest, allowing more possibilities of love to enter their life.

[image from here, used under fair use]

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